Online dating has become one of the most common ways to meet new people. For many, it leads to genuine connections and even lasting relationships. But unfortunately, not everyone you meet online has good intentions. Romance scams are on the rise in the UK, costing victims millions of pounds each year and the emotional toll can be even higher.
So how can you protect yourself while still enjoying the benefits of online dating?
What is a Romance Scam?
A romance scam happens when someone pretends to be interested in a relationship in order to manipulate you, often for financial gain. Scammers create fake profiles, build trust over weeks or months, and then find ways to exploit that trust.
Red Flags to Watch Out For
While scammers are clever, there are warning signs you can look out for:
- Moving too fast – declaring love or commitment unusually quickly
- Avoiding in-person meetings – making excuses for why they can’t meet or video call
- Inconsistent stories – details about their life that don’t add up
- Requests for money – often disguised as emergencies, medical issues, or travel problems
- Too good to be true – unusually attractive photos, glamorous lifestyles, or instant chemistry
Trust your instincts. If something feels “off,” it’s worth taking a closer look.
How to Stay Safe Online -
Verify identities – use reverse image searches, check social media accounts, and look for inconsistencies.
Keep conversations on the platform – scammers often try to move to private messaging apps quickly.
Don’t share sensitive information – avoid sending copies of ID, bank details, or intimate photos.
Never send money – no matter how convincing the story, genuine partners won’t ask.
Meet in safe, public places – when the time comes, prioritise your personal safety.
How Investigators Can Help
If you have doubts about someone you’ve met online, private investigators can discreetly check their background. This may include:
- Confirming whether their name, job, and location is genuine
- Checking for hidden relationships
- Verifying online profiles and photos
- Identifying patterns that suggest scam behaviour
Having the truth before you get too invested can protect both your heart and your finances.
Online dating doesn’t have to be dangerous but awareness is your best defence. By staying alert to the warning signs and verifying who you’re really speaking to, you can enjoy the benefits of dating apps without becoming a victim.
At Absolute Investigations, we help clients uncover the truth about online connections, offering peace of mind before emotions or money are at risk.
If you’re concerned about someone you’ve met online, contact us for a confidential consultation.
